Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Dinner Time!

Now that the "practice" is over, we all loaded up and headed down to Lake Lure/Bill's Creek for a big family-style Mardi Gras party! Damion's family worked for a long time to make this such a fun night for us!  The food was AMAZING! The decorations were so fun! Everyone got beads, masks, and had tons of fun! We took a little time to introduce everyone to each other and hand out a few things to our wedding party members, but the majority of the night was spent eating and laughing together.  Nothing I could say could do this party justice, so just enjoy some photos!


Anyone up for dessert first? :) King Cakes! All kinds of flavors!


L to R: Damion's Aunt Michelle, Cousin Emily, Friend Bonnie, and Uncle Jamie
And Nicole Dad's, Bruce, in the background.. already decorated!

My Grandpa, Johnny, and my Aunt Lora


My grandpa and my cousin, Roslyn

My Aunt Gale

Flower Girl, Elaina

FABULOUS Crawfish Etouffee

There were decorations everywhere!




What beautiful views!

My brother thought so, too. :o)

CAKE! My nephew, Reece, the ring bearer.


My grandmother, Ellen.

The fabulous Matron of Honor, Dawn, and her littlest, Rhylee.

My Aunt Anne, My mom, and My Aunt Gale

In the center is Kasey. My long time friend!

Damion's grandmother, Dianna. She had a blast!

Rhylee and her daddy, Jarrod



My niece, Natalie, and her buddy, Emma.

Uncle Jamie and our friend, Jeremy.

Mawmaw tossing fun stuff to the crowd during the Mardi Gras parade!

Aunt Michelle helped!


Nicole's sister, Stephanie.

My Aunt Lora. In the background is Roslyn and Hallie.

The King? ;o)


Monday, April 28, 2014

The Day Before

Friday, April 4... our rehearsal!

Earlier in the day, Damion and his brother, cousin, and two friends who traveled to be with us, hung out at their rental cabin, sleeping in, playing pool, and hanging out together.  I met up with my bridesmaids, one of my bridal attendants and my cousin Roslyn (i.e. - Makeup Lady!) at a nail salon in downtown Hendersonville.  We ordered some pizzas and spent a few hours getting manicures and pedicures.  Afterward, we headed to get freshened up and meet everyone at the church for rehearsal! I had been feeling so great all day. I was excited to meet folks I hadn't met yet, see everyone all together, and watch this all come together into the real deal! Except... when I got to the church, about 10 minutes late!, that's not how I felt at all! I was immediately overwhelmed and felt like ALL eyes were on me. And they WERE! I was the bride, I had all the plans (literally - in my hand!) and was expected to semi-run the show. And I WAS LATE! No one cared, of course. But, I hadn't seen Damion all day, family was all gathered together to love on us and get the party started. My friends and their families were all there... So, of course - I burst into tears! Ha! Damion immediately came to hug me, calm me down and tell me that everything was going to be okay. :o) I just needed a moment to process everything, I suppose. (My apologies to those I had never met before... you shouldn't have had to endure that right away. Thanks for sticking around!) Here are some photos of the rehearsal!

 Eric, my brother-in-law, and Damion waiting for the "bride" to walk down.

 The coolest "Ring Security" you ever did see! 
He called himself the Ring Bear. ;o) This is my nephew, Reece.

 My little brother, Adam, and my mom, Inez. 

 "Sassy" doesn't even begin to cover it! This girl is FULL of personality!
This is Damion's cousin, Elaina.

My daddy, Bruce, and my sister-in-law, Karen.
Thank you for stepping in as "the bride" at last minute!

 Here's everyone!  We had some adjustments to make, but the party is here!
(L to R: Amanda Jo, Hallie, Carmine, and Dawn; 
Eric and Damion; 
Dustin, Jamie, Teddy and Jacob)

Everything went great! We did a quick run through, adjusted some things, then did a 2nd run.  It went great! So, off we went to the dinner... 


Monday, April 14, 2014

Traveling Adventures

Welcome!
I realize that I'm skipping a huge part of "the beginning" by moving past the wedding weekend to tell you about our traveling adventures, but that post will come soon enough. :o)

On Monday, Damion and I left our weekend getaway home in Belmont, NC to drive to Raleigh to meet up with his parents. They stayed after the wedding to wait for us so we could have some help getting the moving truck packed up for the move to Louisiana.

The rain had already started when we left at 6:45 a.m., but we were excited and anxious to get the day started! We drove through Hickory to stop by my parents' house to drop off a few things and pick up some of our stuff that we left at the wedding.  It was a pretty quick stop, and we were on our way again.  The rain continued pretty hard the whole trip, but we finally made it to Cary where we were to pick up our rental truck and dolly for my car.  The exchange went well, and we decided to leave the car off the dolly (which ended up costing us a LOT of time... more on that soon) and head on to my storage unit to meet up with Damion's parents.  In no time at all, with the rain tapering off nicely, Damion and his dad did a great job getting all my things and our wedding gifts cleared out of storage and onto the truck.  Because the weather forecast didn't seem to be cooperating with us for the rest of the day, we decided to stop there for the day.  His parents took the truck to get a lock and get it parked for the night at their hotel, while Damion and I went to our apartments to finish up as much as the moving preparations as we could.  It was still a busy evening, but we felt ready!

Tuesday morning, his parents met up with us at my apartment and got it all loaded up.  Next, we moved to downtown to clear out Damion's apartment.  Our last stop, we hoped, was to drive through Garner and pick up a couple of appliances from a friend of mine.  Once we got that taken care of, we started to load up my car onto the dolly... only to find that the one they had given us (recommended for my car) didn't work.  It scraped up my front bumper, and we quickly realized this wouldn't work at all.  Even if we had forced the car over the front tire stoppers, it would have ripped the bumper completely off my car to get it rolled back off the dolly. Sad!

We called the rental truck company to find out what to do about getting a different style of dolly (it's now 4 p.m., mind you) and they told us they would need a maximum of 2 hours to handle it for us.  So, we headed off to eat some dinner and wait for the call.  As 6 p.m. neared, we still hadn't heard anything, and I started to become nervous about all these offices closing for the day and no one helping us.  Sure enough, when I called back at 5:55 p.m., the customer service agent told me they would be closing in 5 minutes, so my request was probably pushed off until the next morning.  Well, that wasn't good news!  We had a LONG way to drive and wanted to get started! We updated our information for them to call us and decided to just drive at least a few hours and get started.  We made it to Bishopville, SC and stopped for the night.

The next morning, we called again to check on the status and told them we would be heading toward Columbia, SC.  Right as we were arriving into the city, they called us back to let us know they had a car carrier for us and we could exchange out the dolly.  This was good news, though it was just one more thing that continued to delay us.  FINALLY, now nearly 1 p.m. on Wednesday, we were pulling out of Columbia, SC to finish the long drive to Louisiana.  Damion's parents went on ahead of us so they could get back and settled before his dad needed to leave for work offshore, and Damion and I moved at the best pace as possible.  It took FOREVER! But, finally - around 4 a.m. Central Time - we pulled up in front of our new home. :o) Even as exhausted as we were, we were excited to be here! We didn't even take a single thing inside the house with us.. we just walked in and collapsed into one of the beds already here.

The next day, Thursday, was filled with a LOT of work - unloading the truck, starting to move some things out of the house to have room for our things, cleaning, etc.  Finally, in the evening, the truck was empty and we knew that we'd be fine for our 9 a.m. drop off on Friday morning with the truck/car carrier.

More later - and yes, some photos, but there's the story of our first roadtrip adventure as husband and wife!

** A HUGE HUGE THANK YOU to Damion's family for all they did for this! Help with moving our things, the truck, the driving, the unloading, the cleaning, etc. We are so happy to be so loved by our families! **